Tuesday, August 15, 2006

無題

why is it 無題 for this post. I cant really think of something to title this. What if you suspect or find out someone you know is silently going into adultry, maybe the word adultry is too serious, how about married but having an affair. I dont blame the person who have affair, every one have a story to tell about what has happened and is happening. Some plp say whatever the reason is having affair is definitely not right.
Most often heard excuses/ reasons?? are, i dont love my partner anymore, life is boring need some excitement, feel like falling in love again, if it is not for my children i have long divorced.. blah.. I have nothing against divorce. If you truly have tried to save the marriage but failed, if you really do not love your partner anymore so might better off divorce. Most of the time hear plp say, it is all for the children, but if the parents is not living in a loving and happy environment, will the child? Might as well live as a happy single parent and bring up the child in happy environment. This is only my lame opinion. I have not been there, i will not know what i will do when im in that situation. Whoever fault is that, whatever story or reason behind, i know is a very difficult situation for every party involved.
**True love is like ghosts, which everybody talks about but few have seen**
(whoever said that)

3 comments:

烏啄啄 said...

i would say dat ppl nowdays r too easily get seduces. ppl r curious n 4got 2 appreciate what dey r having now. n most of all dey dun share everything wif their love 1s o their children bcos of $ life. even if dey did, but somehow da caring feelings r not there n dun wanna understand their family o own situation... dey always choose 2 avoid every prob.

Chi Hua Hua said...

ai ah co, susah lah nak cakap.. but u really no feeling with your partner liao, u willing to sleep everyday with plp u x have feeling one meh.. what u said is true to a certain extent loh

烏啄啄 said...

wat i mean is i will not let my feeling abt my partner fade juz like dat... ppl always says dey hv tried, but actually dey din try wif their true heart... cos most of da situation is ego thingy...
anyway, lets juz hope these thing nvr come 2 every1 ;)